Get a second opinion. I assume you are still under warranty? Try another dealer or call Toyota customer service.
Ditto to Tom's answer. Plus contact your local Office of Consumer Affairs if you get nowhere with Toyota. Good luck! -Jim
Definitely driver abuse or lack of transmission fluid
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