where can I find a "paint kit" that includes gaskets for the exterior parts ie: mirror, lights, antennae, etc?
I've never heard of a paint kit that has gaskets for a specific make and model. 1974 Gremlin's aren't that popular any more. I doubt that you can even find gaskets for it.
I would be checking out AMC and Gremlin forums.
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