where are the wire for the foglight that are inside the cabin of the car?

This is me showing the plugs that are for the fog lights already on the car

And here is the plug

The fog light switch would be near the headlight switch or part of the headlight switch in cars that came with fog lights from the factory. Look for the wires there. Your owners manual may have a picture of the fog light switch showing the location.

Yea I can get the controller that has the switch on it but need to find the 3 other wires to put in my plug so the the switch will work I can't find those 3 wires I need so I can put them in the connector so that th switch will work

The wires are either there or they are not. Obviously they are not somewhere else.