I have a 1998 Ford Explorer
reverse didn't word when I bought it
Then about a yr later the transmission blew fluid out the back and quit shifting and pulling all together
I think you are at the point where you will need a complete transmission overhaul
Yes, get the transmission rebuilt by a quality shop or better yet get one directly from Ford as they have the best warranty there is.
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