4x4 won't work
wrench light is something wrong with your throttle. That light comes on to tell you that its going to limit the RPMs and fuel going into the motor, so you dont have a run away condition. Check your mass air flow sensor and your throttle. You're not going to be able to go into 4x4 mode until you clear that error.
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