what is the slide button located by the shifter used for that has an a/m
Typically these are used either to engage/disengage overdrive, or to put the trans into a "performance mode" changing the shift patterns a bit. It may also be your switch to change it from an automatic to manual automatic operation since your car has an semiautomatic "autostick" type trans.
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