My 2003 Pontiac grand am se2 says it comes standard with abs but no dash lights come on.

If you see any wires at all going to the hubs, you have ABS. It is part of the hub on your car and cannot be serviced. It's also a chore to get the hub off, best left to a front end shop. It's possible that the ABS light is burned out on the dash - it should light with the key ON, before you start the motor. There should be something like this: (( ! )) under the word BRAKE. That's the ABS alert.