what is the best overall; durable, low maintenance crossover ever made?
Too vague a question. It's all in what you like and want. Go here to do some comparisons and narrow it down to three and ask again...https://www.cargurus.com/Cars/autos/
Take a look at the True Delta website.
Also look at Car Complaints....or Consumer Reports.... Kelly Blue Book and US News and World ..yes, even they rate cars. And, there's articles on all kinds of cars from Motor Trend and Car and Driver.......you really need to get several opinions