This could be a few different problems 1)
the winding noise could come from a lack
of oil in the tranny yet that would cause it
to whind in all gears, bad syncros would
cause it whind, a bent shifter fork or a
broken shifter fork would also cause this
and me personally would lean more
towards a bent or broken shifter fork being
what u described now in some cases it is
cheaper to have the tranny rebuilt but in
others and in ur case I think it is safe to say
that u may want to start looking for a new
tranny. A good place to start would be
you're local salvage yard being that it is a
manual transmission u should have no
problem finding a good one now just a bit
more advice if u do change out the
transmission while the tranny is out I
would also have a new clutch and throw
out bearing installed as well.