Why is my SUV stuck in 4WD?
You can feel it engage into the different gears but when you try to turn the push button 4WD it just keeps flashing and you never hear it pop out of 4WD. Ive tried disconnecting the batt. and changing the fuse and it did nothing. Is there some sort of relay that the button goes to that engages it in AND out of 4WD from that push button
Try throwing the car into reverse and pushing the button. That is what is recommended to see if it resets the system. If that doesn't work and disconnecting the battery doesn't work then you've got a linkage issue.
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